Many women falsely believe that the best way to attract a man is simply to work on looking good. While it is true that a hot looking woman will typically be able to catch the eye of most men, the really good catches out there need a lot more than just good looks to win them over.
I know what you are thinking, but I don’t mean learning to cook for a man, being a great mother to his children or keeping a tidy house. While these things are all great, what I am talking about is learning how to talk to a man, in the words that he needs to hear in order for him to f all in love with you!
No! I don’t mean talking dirty to him in bed (Although that can be fun). What I’m talking about is learning to communicate with your man, in a way that makes him feel like you can love him like no other woman in the world can, so that he’ll be your forever.
While this may seem a little far fetched, the truth is that most good men (and I emphasize “good men” rather than just knuckle-head goons) are really looking for one good woman to settle down with. The problem is that most guys just don’t know where to find such a woman because they never meet women who really seem to “get” them.
The sad truth is that most of us get a wee-bit possessive and controlling when we find a guy that we think could be Mr. Right. This is natural, we don’t want him to slip away, but I think that the big mistake most of us make is that we end up pushing good guys away because we just come on too strong and guys are really turned off by women who try to pressure them into relationships too fast.
The way to get around this is to talk to a man in a special way so that he feels like you really understand him, and then not to pressure him at all. If done correctly, I believe that this combo (special words, and no pressure) can make the biggest “playa” out there want to wife you up!
What are these special words, well that’s something I plan to explore in future posts, but for now I just wanted to get these thought out there and see what you think! Thoughts?